There are some things that should not be discussed immediately
after marriage.
In many cases the situation depends on what the couple will talk about and what they will avoid after marriage. However, it is better to avoid some issues in the first night's conversation. Otherwise, the beautiful time may be filled with sadness instead of honey.
They both deal with their confidence as they choose to the embark
on their play activities. So it is better to avoid these things on the wedding
night. Remember, this is not a good night to talk. Try to understand what he likes
first. For the man of love, he changed the bad habits little by little.
What they should do for a loving family can be discussed
from their respective contexts. But if one starts such discussions and the
other does not show interest, then one has to keep quiet. Because, the other
person is hoping to get a better time from you, give him importance.
You must be careful when it comes to your likes and
dislikes. When talking about these things, make sure that they are not
offensive or annoying to your partner. Like you might say ‘I don’t like the
color blue at all. It’s like wearing a school dress or a surgery dress. ’But to
the person sitting next to you, blue may mean open sky. The color of love. But
in the beginning you described blue, your partner did not have the courage to
speak his mind. Maybe he will see the sky hiding you all his life. Even if you
go to buy blue clothes, you will remember these things. So these things can not
be said on the wedding night.
Wedding nights are not always the best time to tell your partner about a secret. Maybe you have a secret aspect that, if revealed later, can ruin the relationship, it is better to discuss it before marriage. Don’t sit for the wedding night. If those things are known after marriage, the marriage itself may become shaky.
Don't be anxious on the wedding night to discuss how you can
adapt to your worldly life. Wait. You are just starting life. Many nights, many
days have fallen for these discussions. Keep a rather beautiful story for
yourself to make this night memorable; Which is inspiring and interesting for
the rest of life.
After marriage, your responsibilities, obligations and
limitations will naturally merge with others. It cannot be avoided if desired.
So one night at least two have a good time. Try to live as a couple for the
rest of your life as a friend.
(Marriage counselor)


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